Recent Post: TUG JOBS TUGJOBS was going to continue but Doug interrupted, "You are correct, we do have your best interests at heart. That's exactly why we would never suggest that you do something that you just can't do, whatever the reason. Gloria and I have never pushed the other into anything. We always discuss each other's wants and desires, no matter how kinky or absurd they might appear to either of us. I think it would be beneficial to your marriage for you and Martin to have similar discussions. The point here is that you both must really agree on what things you will do and on those that you won't. And it can't be fake. You both must really, really want to do those things that you agree on. Saying that, there has to be room for compromise. Compromise allows you to grow and experience new things. How can one evaluate without experience? Let him know you enjoy life and sex. That's what's sexy. Don't be afraid to be sexy. Guys love that. Be sexual. Guys really love that. Let go, share your fantasies with Martin. Enjoy yourself and he'll think you're the sexiest woman on the planet, which will make you feel like the sexiest woman on the planet. I know all this may sound like a lecture but it's not. It's more of an explanation and I think you need that."
